I have so much fun with hubs. Sometimes I forget what it's like to have grown-up time. Let me paint you a picture of our night out. We arrive at our favorite restaurant here, we get out of the car and I actually have a hand available for him to hold. It's not holding a little Bean or a diaper bag or anything else baby related- nope it's free- free to be held by my best friend. It's funny how such a small thing makes such a big difference to me. I love holding hands. We sit down and eat- without rushing. We don't have to worry about spills, or messes, or wandering hands that ache to knock over that glass of water- nope just the two of us. The two of us actually addressing eachother by our first names. Because you know that when Miss O is around he is Daddy and I am Mommy. Sometimes I laugh at how many times I call my own husband "Dada". We talk about so many things and I end up laughing so hard that I'm crying. Oh that is such a wonderful feeling- pure laughter. We get to go do a little shopping after with just the two of us and it's wonderful. A simple night, but perfect.
And then we picked up the bean, who had a hard night and I embraced her and all felt right with that too. A perfect balance- a date night out- then reunited with the girl of our dreams.
I feel so strongly about Date nights than I ever did before I had a child. It's my time to spend quality time with my eternal companion. Oh how I love him.
| Not Sure why this came out blurry...hmmmm It's not blurry on my computer?! |
The rest of the weekend was spent cleaning, attending the pinewood derby, going to church, and skyping with best friends all the way in China!!
Hope you all had a wonderful weekend as well!
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